Advice

I joined this bowling league with my mom and some of her friends from work. I know it sounds like I am such an old fart. I assumed I would be one of the youngest people there. Boy was I wrong! There were a lot of people my age there. Our team name- we decided we would call ourselves the biggest losers, since we are just there to have fun and bowl. But the league that we are bowling in is called the Thursday Partyers. And man they were not lying. One girl a couple lanes down was taking jello shots. I mean really?? I understand we are all there to have fun but Jello shots at a bowling alley? Are you kidding me? There were tons of people taking shots and they were getting pitchers and pitchers of beer. Now me personally, I dont prefer to mix bowling and alcohol for fear that I might end up throwing myself halfway down the lane along with my bowling ball. But it was pretty funny to watch. So I met this guy last night at the bowling league ( who didnt appear to be drunk) and we started talking(flirting) whatever and he said he didnt know what he was going to do this weekend, he didnt really have any plans. So I have 4 tickets to the redbirds game and 2 friends going with me so I had an extra ticket and offered it to him if he wanted to go. Now I just met him last night so I understand it was a little sudden. But he just kind of sat there and acted like he was thinking about it and then he said that he wished I would have asked him a week ago. (Umm ok what you just said you really didnt have any plans this weekend????) So i just said thats ok I was ok I wasnt trying to put you on the spot just offering the ticket and something to do. And he said twice its really not you I promise. So I guess I'm confused you said you didnt have plans and I offered you something to do but now you cant and its not me?? What do ya'll think? And Im ok if it is me cause I understand the fact that if your not feeling it then dont waste my time. But what gives? I need some advice cause the bowling league lasts till August so I will see him once a week for the next 3 months. Just great.